5 Prompts I Use to Get Real Smiles From Every Couple
So often I hear, “We’re so awkward in front of the camera!” And honestly? I get it. Being in front of a lens doesn’t always feel natural—especially when you’re being told to hold stiff poses that don’t feel like you. That’s why I use prompts instead of poses. My approach is relaxed, candid, and full […]
June 13, 2025
So often I hear, “We’re so awkward in front of the camera!” And honestly? I get it. Being in front of a lens doesn’t always feel natural—especially when you’re being told to hold stiff poses that don’t feel like you.
That’s why I use prompts instead of poses. My approach is relaxed, candid, and full of movement. I’ll give you a gentle suggestion, and you get to run with it in whatever way feels right. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s connection.
Here are five of my go-to prompts to bring out real smiles, real laughs, and real love:
1. “Tell your partner what you had for breakfast—in your silliest voice.”
Even if they already know, this one never fails. I’ve heard Cookie Monster talk about protein shakes and toddlers-at-heart whispering about Pop-Tarts. It’s weird, it’s goofy, and it works.
I usually start sessions with this to break the ice. The smiles aren’t forced—they’re genuine reactions to each other being adorable goofballs.
2. “Hold hands and bump hips as you walk—gently!”
This one brings out movement and playfulness. I’m a sucker for those golden hour walking shots, and this prompt adds just enough action to keep things natural.
It also works great for those wide, scenic shots—just the two of you, chatting and giggling while I hang back and catch the moment.
3. “Run up behind your partner and give them a big bear hug.”
This one brings the energy back up mid-session and usually gets us a solid combo of laughter and tenderness.
One of my favorite photos ever was from this prompt: my friend Raiko on a swing, full-on belly-laughing as her husband ran up and hugged her. It’s playful, affectionate, and totally real.
4. “Give me your best fake laugh.”
The fake laugh is always bad. That’s the point.
What comes right after is gold—genuine giggles and natural smiles that you could never fake on cue. I love using this one early on to loosen everyone up.
5. “Pretend I’m not even here. Just take a minute together.”
I usually end sessions with this. After all the prompts and photos, this is your moment to breathe.
Sometimes couples snuggle, sometimes they talk, sometimes they just stand still together—and those are some of the most magical images. Quiet, emotional, real.
Real Prompts = Real Moments
Every couple is different, and I always adapt the prompts to match your vibe. If you’re silly, we’ll be silly. If you’re chill, we’ll keep it calm and cozy.
These prompts are just tools to help you forget the camera is even there—so I can capture you, exactly as you are, right now.
Curious what it’s like to actually have fun during a photo session?
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